Finding encouragement and community as an old-er woman

Today I’m posting at Out of the Ordinary about old-er women and our need for gospel community and encouragement:

At 44, I am what many (myself included) would consider an older woman. Not old necessarily, but old enough to be old-er. The distinction is important, at least to my vanity.

To be perfectly honest, I’m not aging well. I do, of course, suffer from the usual physical effects of forty plus years on this earth: the gray hair and the corresponding appointment with my hairstylist every 6-8 weeks, the wrinkles, the hormonal migraines that take me down for nearly a whole a week at a time, just to name a few.

Growing old, it’s not a pretty sight.

But it’s the unexpected repercussions of these middle years that have me reeling: the sudden grief over an emptying nest, the regrets of past failures and deficiencies, the question of “What now?”

Don’t get me wrong. I like my 40’s. Life is good here in the middle years, good and rich and happy. Yet there is also much that is confusing and stressful and surreal and, well, hard. It can be a lonely stage of life and a difficult one.

Read the rest of the post here.


Author: Lisa Spence

Wife, mother, Bible teacher, bibliophile, occasional blogger

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